Undateable Me Podcast

Why is dating so damn hard? Finance executive turned content creator, Jimmy Lee Lard (The Sock Snob), takes his audience on an entertaining journey to find solutions to struggles with love, relationships, and dating. Often joined by co-host, DaBeamer, he provides hilariously wise insight into love and relationships while highlighting his own successes and failures.
Episodes
Episodes



Friday Oct 11, 2024
Swipe Right: The Art of Researching Potential Partners!
Friday Oct 11, 2024
Friday Oct 11, 2024
Welcome to another engaging episode of the UnDateable Me Podcast, hosted by the ever-vulnerable Jimmy Lee Lard, The Sock Snob and DaBeamer. In this week's episode, the team dives into the complexities of online dating and the importance of thorough research to avoid potential pitfalls.
Through entertaining anecdotes and candid discussions, Jimmy reveals his experiences with online dating, emphasizing the need for research to uncover the truth behind the carefully curated personas people present on the internet. From unexpected ankle bracelets to hidden toothless smiles, Jimmy shares humorous yet eye-opening tales that highlight the necessity of digging deeper into potential matches.
Jimmy and DaBeamer explore the balance between being cautious and judgmental, offering insights into how to protect oneself from deceptive individuals while navigating the online dating world. The episode also touches on the broader theme of vulnerability in relationships and the common human need to feel needed.
Join us for a lively conversation filled with laughter, honesty, and valuable tips on how to approach online dating with a discerning eye. Don't forget to subscribe for more episodes of the UnDateable Me Podcast!



Friday Oct 04, 2024
Stop Bringing Emotional Baggage Into New Relationships
Friday Oct 04, 2024
Friday Oct 04, 2024
In this episode of the UnDateable Me Podcast, host Jimmy Lee Lard, the Sock Snob, dives deeper into the complexities of relationships and dating. Jimmy and co-host, DaBeamer, tackle the difficult topic of emotional baggage that individuals often carry into new relationships. With humor and vulnerability, they discuss the importance of addressing personal issues before they affect new partners.
The episode explores how unresolved past traumas, trust issues, and paranoia can disrupt the path to a successful relationship. Jimmy and DaBeamer emphasize personal responsibility for one's emotional health and the necessity of seeking professional help when needed. They also stress the significance of open communication while recognizing that partners are not substitutes for therapists.
Throughout the conversation, listeners are encouraged to embrace personal growth and avoid projecting past relationship problems onto new partners. With candid anecdotes and practical advice, this episode serves as a reminder to confront and manage personal baggage for healthier, happier relationships.
Join the "Undateable Me" community on YouTube by searching "Sock Snob Films" for more engaging discussions and support in navigating the challenges of love and dating.



Saturday Sep 28, 2024
Poly Love: This Woman Went From a Traditional Marriage To A 7-Person Polycule
Saturday Sep 28, 2024
Saturday Sep 28, 2024
Jimmy Lee Lard and co-host, DaBeamer dive deep into the complexities and beauty of polyamorous relationships with their very special guest, Saint, on the UnDateable Me Podcast. Join us as we explore the dynamics, challenges, and joys of living in a 7-person polycule, a close-knit group of individuals who embrace poly love.
Saint candidly shares her personal experiences, shedding light on the misconceptions and truths about polyamory. We discuss everything from the initial steps of transitioning from a traditional marriage to a poly relationship, to the intricate relationships within the polycule.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about polyamory or seeking to understand the diverse ways people find love and companionship. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation that challenges societal norms and celebrates the many ways love can be experienced.



Friday Sep 20, 2024
Exploring Fetishes and Kinks: What Are You Willing to Try?
Friday Sep 20, 2024
Friday Sep 20, 2024
In this episode of the UnDateable Me Podcast, Jimmy Lee Lard, The Sock Snob and DaBeamer delve into the often taboo subject of fetishes and kinks, discussing the various preferences people have in the bedroom and how these can impact relationships.
We explore a wide range of fetishes, from bondage and voyeurism to foot fetishes and food play! With a little humor and vulnerability, we share personal boundaries and experiences, while emphasizing the importance of communication and consent in any relationship.
Whether you're curious about trying something new or just want to understand more about different sexual experiences, this episode offers an entertaining and insightful look into the world of fetishes and kinks. Tune in to discover what you might be willing to try and how to keep your relationship spicy and fulfilling.



Tuesday Sep 17, 2024
Indicted: The Rise and Fall of Sean "P. Diddy" Combs
Tuesday Sep 17, 2024
Tuesday Sep 17, 2024
In this special edition of the Undateable Me Podcast, we dive deep into the arrest of Sean "P. Diddy" Combs on Monday, September 16th.
We explore his journey from an unpaid intern to a music industry executive, rapper, producer, and head of a label, to his current legal troubles. Despite his contributions to hip-hop and the music industry, including launching the careers of Notorious B.I.G., Faith Evans, and others, Combs' legacy is now tainted by allegations of abuse and numerous lawsuits.
This episode is also a cautionary tale as Jimmy Lee Lard, The Sock Snob, discusses the critical issue of unhealthy relationships and the importance of recognizing and escaping them. Using Combs' situation as a backdrop, we highlight the need for swift action and support for those in abusive relationships, emphasizing the importance of seeking help and avoiding dependency.
Join us as we unravel this complex story and offer valuable insights into maintaining healthy relationships, underscoring the necessity of therapy and objective guidance. Stay tuned for updates on this unfolding saga and make sure to like, subscribe, and be part of our upcoming channel memberships.



Friday Sep 13, 2024
Hookups, One Night Stands, and Situationships: The Honest Truth
Friday Sep 13, 2024
Friday Sep 13, 2024
In this episode of the Undateable Me Podcast, Jimmy Lee Lard (The Sock Snob) and DaBeamer dive into the complex world of one-night stands and hookups. Are fleeting encounters just a part of modern dating, or do they come with unexpected consequences?
Join us as we share personal stories, discuss the societal perceptions of casual relationships, and explore how dating apps have changed the game. Whether you're looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right or just Mr. or Mrs. Right Now, this episode is filled with candid conversations and real-life experiences.
We also tackle the dangers of "situationships" and the importance of recognizing when it's time to move on. Tune in for an honest, entertaining, and vulnerable discussion about the ups and downs of modern dating!



Friday Sep 06, 2024
Interracial Dating: Is it Betraying The Culture?
Friday Sep 06, 2024
Friday Sep 06, 2024
In this episode of the UnDateable Me podcast, your host, Jimmy Lee Lard, the Sock Snob and his co-host, DaBeamer, delve into the complexities and experiences of interracial dating. They share personal anecdotes, discuss societal pressures, and address cultural differences and biases. Tune in for an engaging and candid conversation about love that transcends racial boundaries.
Don't miss out on their witty banter and thought-provoking insights. Remember to subscribe and join the UnDateable Me community for more hilarious, but insightful discussions on relationships and dating challenges.



Friday Sep 06, 2024
Ghosting: Why People Do It and How To Get Over It
Friday Sep 06, 2024
Friday Sep 06, 2024
Welcome to the UnDateable Me podcast, hosted by Jimmy Lee Lard, also known as the Sock Snob. In this week's episode, Jimmy and his co-host, DaBeamer, dive deep into the controversial topic of ghosting in the dating world. What is ghosting? Is it hurtful or kind? Disrespectful or necessary? Jimmy shares personal stories, discuss the psychology behind ghosting, and explore whether it's a healthy way to end a relationship...even brief ones.
From experiences with fetish-focused dates to awkward online encounters, the hosts provide an entertaining and vulnerable look at the complexities of ghosting. They also reflect on whether ghosting can sometimes be an act of kindness and how to handle being ghosted. Tune in for a thought-provoking and candid conversation that you won't want to miss.
Join us every week for more episodes as we navigate the struggles and solutions in relationships and dating.

Funny Guy, Serious Advice!
Jimmy Lee Lard, The Sock Snob, and co-host, DaBeamer, come together every week to discuss the ins and outs of dating and relationships.
Jimmy left his career as a corporate learning executive in the banking industry to return to his creative roots. With an almost 30-year career in adult education, he knows how to shape information and advice in ways that make it easy for his listeners to understand.
He provides wise guidance based on his own experiences in order to bring his community of listeners on a journey to find love and thrive in relationships. Though funny, and often direct, Jimmy, along with DaBeamer, dives into the psychological and social impacts of dating struggles.
Jimmy Lee Lard was born and raised in Chicago. He grew up in the west side neighborhood of K-Town in the North Lawndale community. He attended the renown, Lindblom Technical High School on the south side before attending college at DePaul University on the city's north side. Though his life and career have given him an opportunity to live in the South, Washington DC, and now the Upper-Midwest, he is a Chicagoan through and through.
Despite a lucrative career, he still found time to explore his passions in the music, film, and television industries and is a true creative at heart. Jimmy is also quite the traveler with many countries and destinations already checked off his list!
If you haven't caught on by now, this is more of a dating profile than a bio so slide in his DMs if you think you could be his "forever guy!"
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